I think my husband IS EJACULATING ONTO MY DAUGHTERS DRESS SHOES AND LITTLE CHEERLEADING SHOES. THEY ARE GROSS!

1. Ask your daughter if "Daddy" has done anything that seemed "unusual"


2. Don't let your husband be alone with her unless you find out for sure it's not true.


3. Talk to a counselor to find out how to confront him


4. Confront him, and don't be stupid enough to fall for any lies or excuses.


5. If you find out it's true, LEAVE him and never go back!


Your daughter comes FIRST, before any man.

I think my husband IS EJACULATING ONTO MY DAUGHTERS DRESS SHOES AND LITTLE CHEERLEADING SHOES. THEY ARE GROSS!
Keep calm. Don't jump to conclusions. Do you really know who or where the stains actually came from? Could your daughter be planting them there for some purpose to mislead you by false incrimination? It is not good to accuse someone without solid facts. Silly thought? Don't underestimate the sneakiness of the human mind. Try to intelligently, tactfully investigate things further by asking your daughter and husband (separately) about the stained shoes. Be smarter than and more thoughtful than them to find out the real deal. Ask them to tell you what they think caused the stains? Tell them you are highly disturbed at the possible implications. Give them each a chance to come clean. Compare their answers and take it from there.





If you are right in your suspicions......


That is more than just a little gross. It is totally inappropriate.


Maybe the both of you, as husband and wife, should talk about it in private. (an adult dialog to communicate respectfully and politely about this issue)





Maybe the both of you could take measures (between the 2 of you) and give him a more appropriate, more pleasant spot to do such a thing.......and perhaps a bit more often as well?


Just an honest thought.





Oh and as "punishment" I believe he ought to buy your daughter at least 2 brand new pairs of shoes (any kind of her choice) for each pair he @#$%@'d up.





Hope things work out well and he gets the message.


Good Luck!
Reply:try to catch him in the act, if he is, you need to keep your daughter away from him! I work for a prison and I have to read arrest report and you wouldn't believe the number of fathers/stepfathers/boyfriends etc that molest their children/stepchildren/girlfriends children and the mother have no idea or think he would never do that! If you suspect that, then try to catch him, either secretly set up a video camera or just when you think he is in the moment sneak up on him and watch what he is doing.
Reply:He seems twisted...don't wait too long, or else your daughter may pay for the consequences...I think you know what I mean...You know your husband better than anyone else...don't risk your child...you may want your child to stay at a safe place and maybe you can ask the police, or a lawyer what you can do...maybe you'll need to keep a sample of the shoes...forensics??? Until you figure out what you can do to keep him away from your daughter.
Reply:Put the shoes inside the covers and on your side. If he makes a move for the shoes over you, then you will be sure of your suspicions. But he may make a little fun of it and ask you to put them on. Just roll with it and ask if he wants you to put the skirt on too.
Reply:sounds like he has a shoe fetish. either that or hes starting to think about your daughter sexually, which is MUCH MUCH WORSE. you should probably talk to him and find out whats going on. i have a feeling some kind of therapy is needed. you might want to keep an eye on your daughter to see if she starts acting differently. this could be a sign of inappropriate behavior taking place.
Reply:seriously... you need to act like you are so hot and so into it just to see what he does and how he truly reacts to you being interested in that and once you catch him in the act you leave his sick *** and never let him see your daughter again! thats insest and gross!!!
Reply:If this is a real question.I would take thos to the police and have them analized to see if that is in fact what you say it is.Then find out if it is his or not.Then you will know whos' b___s you need to cut off.
Reply:Ok. I am not sure how to approach this question. The implications alone are.....disturbing.





Confront your husband. Take it from there.
Reply:Just read your posting out loud and it should be plainly obvious, Confront him. If he's doing this to your daughters shoes he obviously has a thing for children?????


Get off your **** and do something about it!
Reply:...and your on here? Get rid of him now! Obviously, you must be pretty certain of what is going on. Another thing- why do you let her go out alone with him?
Reply:he is a sick-o!! get him away from that child or you both could in up in jail and the child taken away!!! it won't be long before he is doing more than just her shoes!!
Reply:OMG!! That is absolutley disgusting!!! Confront him with the situation, and tell him he needs to stop!
Reply:how do you know it is ejaculate?
Reply:OK. So what do you want us to do about it?
Reply:...is this for real?





what is the question.....?



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